Success Information

Believing in Oneself is a Daily Commitment


"If you think you can or you think you can't - you're right!" Henry Ford

Principle 5 in The Success Principles by Jack Canfield and Janet Switzer is "believe in yourself". In that chapter Canfield refers to the negative power of the phrase "I can't"

Remember the story of the little engine that could? The little engine had to get a huge load up a huge hill. It seemed impossible but he kept trying and as he tried he said, "I think I can. I think I can?", until finally he made it.

I often feel like that little engine with one unfortunate difference. I hear another voice trying to cancel out my "I think I can" refrain. It is the insidious little voice of the conductor whispering, "No you can't. No you can't". And her voice sounds an awful lot like mine.

When I decided to quit the rat race and make my living without a job, I expected opposition. I expected negative voice to be coming from my family and my well meaning friends. But they all surprised me with their encouragement and support. I think that part of the reason is because many people secretly share my dream of making a living without a job. If I succeed then maybe someday they will too. They also love me and believe in me.

No that voice that says, "You can't make it," comes from inside me. I have to work every day to drown out that whisper. I have to keep my goals front and center and tell myself over and over that "I can!"

I carry a stack of 3" X 5" cards in my purse with my goals written on them stated as if they had already occurred. An example would be: "I am so excited that my book, Stress and the Single Mom has become an instant best seller and that Jay Leno has invited me to be his guest on the Tonight Show. (Feb 19, 2006). I say these affirmations each morning and each night. And whenever I find myself having to wait in line, I whip out my little cards and go over them again.

I know I will make my dreams come true. I am already living them out in so many ways but still I must work being positive every day. It is not as if I can conquer one success principle and then move on to the next. It is an on-going daily commitment. And it is worth the effort.

Every day my "I can" voice gets clearer and louder. And every day, that negative little whispering voice is gets fainter and weaker.

I don't know if I will ever totally silence that insidious conductor but he has definitely been demoted. I am the conductor now.

** Attn Ezine editors / Site owners ** Feel free to reprint this article in its entirety in your ezine or on your site so long as you leave all links in place, do not modify the content and include our resource box as listed above.

(c) Jeanne Russell - All Rights reserved

-- Jeanne Russell is a mother writer and entrepreneur, She is founder of http://www.jeannerussell.com ( a website devoted to self-improvement and success) and also http://www.stressandthesinglemom.com


MORE RESOURCES:

Glen Burnie selects 8 graduates with success stories to serve as ...
Baltimore Sun, United States - 5 hours ago
By Susan Gvozdas | Special to The Baltimore Sun After John Schillinger graduated from Glen Burnie High School in 1956, he developed several popular ...


WAY TO GO! Her hair goods success story
Newsday, NY - 13 hours ago
Leanna Archer, an eighth-grader at Our Lady of Providence Regional School in Central Islip, has been named to Inc.com's "Top 30 Under 30" list for running ...


Today's News: Our Take - With New 90210's Success, Is Melrose ...
Seattle Post Intelligencer - 19 hours ago
By ANNA DIMOND Now that the new 90210 has found success (thus that full-season pickup), will Melrose Place be next? The good news: Series creator Darren ...


TSN.ca

Rays’ success gives other small-market teams hope
Kansas City Star, MO - 19 hours ago
The Rays’ success is bad for Fox executives, sure, but it is the sport’s most recent and convincing proof that winning baseball can be built without blowing ...
Kazmir knows about this foe Boston Globe
Wild see-saw contest goes the Rays' way Toronto Star
ALCS: Manager preaches, Longoria responds San Francisco Chronicle
all 1,271 news articles


Schools need to set bar high on early grade reading success
Palladium-Item, IN - 12 hours ago
To RCS' credit, it has already marshaled considerable effort and achieved some success toward addressing this dropout crisis. And this community was among ...


DYNAMIC ENERGY: Women share knowledge, success stories at conference
Trading Markets (press release), CA - 5 hours ago
"It's important for women to get the opportunity to share business knowledge and success stories," Sanders said. "There's lots of time for personal ...


Keeping it local is the key to community model’s success
Maui News, HI - 4 hours ago
By HARRY EAGAR, Staff Writer KAHULUI -- he principles of community-based fuel could cover other kinds of energy sources, but to Kelly and Bob King it fits ...


Grassroots approach helps success of black films
WAAY, AL - 7 hours ago
She says 1 of the festival's objectives is to make studio executives aware of black films they may not know about and their potential for success. ...


Lightweights Find Success at Navy Day Regatta
Penn Athletics, PA - 5 hours ago
PHILADELPHIA – At the annual Navy Day Regatta on Saturday the Penn’s men’s lightweights got the 2008-09 campaign underway in impressive fashion. ...


Ball State's 3rd-down success starts early
Indianapolis Star, United States - Oct 10, 2008
That's a key reason Ball State has enjoyed wild success on third down this season. The No. 25 Cardinals have lost yardage on first-down plays 12 times ...

Success - Google News

home | site map
© 2006